Emman has improved by knowing his girlfriend's style of having closure from an unhappy (to say the least) discussion. The 's' word that needed to be drilled and excavated out of him previously.

Sigh. In life, there are so many things one can be upset for and about. I really can deal with being upset and/or disappointed. I didn't live through (almost) 31 years on a bed of roses.

But really, the reduction in damage from the good use of 'sorry' should not be undermined. I once watched a tv variety show that mentioned each horoscope's conflict and conflict-resolution style.

For the virgo, closure is so important. Otherwise, the virgo dwells deeper into the issue and what's been fought. Thereby, creating more and more inner turmoil which leads to insecurities. Virgos need very much for their feelings and thoughts to be acknowledged, no matter whether the other person agrees or not. Virgos do not need complete consent, but need a great deal of empathy.

Capricorns are generally, adverse to conflict or conflicting situations. But, once in one, they tend to jump quickly to defense as a form of attack. Whatever (or whoever) is nearer or comes to mind more conveniently would be their shield. Capricorns rely on credibility and respect to get out of a conflict. If the other person can make them feel respected despite the conflict, or find a third party that they respect to mediate the conflict, it would be cease-fire for them.

Emman is improving. Me, I still spent the past hour blogging as a balancing outlet for my negative energy, when I should have been sleeping earlier.

I. Blame. Emman.

Arghhhhhhh!

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